The Secrets of Dreams Coming True

Christmas holidays are coming. Dreams, wishes and goals are waiting to be made and hoping to be realized.

Now there is plenty of information about how to dream and make wishes correctly, what the right time for it is, and so on. However not all our correctly made and put down dreams come true.

Someone may say that all this is nonsense, and miracles never happen. But I am sure that in your life, too, dreams sometimes happened to realize. So, what is the matter?

Let’s figure it out!

So, you have a dream: clear, solid and definite in time. You have done everything “as said in a book”. But time flows, and your dream is sitting quietly and doesn’t hurry to come true. You are already ready to give up and forget about your wish, but take your time.

Actually, the matter is not with you, but there are certain issues about which you should know.

Not your dream

This has already been discussed many times, but life testifies that it is still difficult to deal with this issue.

For example, in childhood you hear from  from your parents all the time that the most important is to have a highly payed job. It is not mentioned that this job has to bring you pleasure and joy. And you trust your parents so much that you connect with their dream as if it was yours.

Maybe, you even had such a job, but you couldn’t stay there for a long time: the unsuitable conditions, you were fired unfairly or something else. Why did this happen? Because this was not your dream.

And if you asked yourself why you still don’t have a highly payed job and answered it frankly, it may turn out that your wish is to realize your own business idea. And it becomes clear at once why you can’t work and have a high salary, in other words – realize someone else’s business idea. This understanding will allow you to make the first steps to your own dreams and wishes realization.

Considering your parents’ wish, it is natural, because during their realization period it was a big success to have a highly payed job, because there were a lot less possibilities for self-realization than now. So, give back "not your dreams" to their owners and accept with joy your own ones.

“You should at least buy a lottery ticket”

When we make a wish, but even don’t look to its side, it is a signal that you don’t need it.

Imagine, a woman wants to switch to a healthy diet, lose several kilos, look younger and improve her health. But every time buying food in a shop, she puts sweets, harmful products, sodas into her basket.

Really? Do you believe that a day will come and she will become healthy and slim only because she made this wish on the New Year Eve? Of course, no! So, every time going to the shop’s checkout lane, she should remember her wish and without doubt put out from her basket all things which do not make her closer to her dream.

And then the Universe will be sure in her intentions’ seriousness and will praize the woman with things like consultation with a nutritionist, necessary information or invitation to a gym.

I will never achieve it

"It is not for me", - how often do you say this about your dream?

The secret is that if you think so, the Universe hears: “I’m not worth it. It is not my level”. And if it is not for you, you won’t have it.

For example, another woman wants a car, and not just a car, but a really cool car. However, every time when her dream car comes into her sight, she thinks that it is not for her. And then she buys a budget car, not at all what she dreamed of. And she doesn’t feel joy about it, but rather a certain doom. Actually, by this act the woman has determined her level. Full stop.

Another example: a woman dreams about a relationship. She wants a relationship with a successful, confident, preferably wealthy and generous man. But when such a candidate appears on her horizon, she gets embarrassed, cannot talk to him and wants to escape from him. It is much easier for her to communicate with an ordinary mediocrity. In some time, she finds this mediocrity and maybe even marries him. Unfortunately, she also has determined her level. Full stop.

In order to get something which now seems to be not of your level, you should inwardly grow to this level and give yourself a permit for everything provided by this level. It never happens that a field  gives you harvest and only after you should think what to sow it with. It is all vice versa: firstly, you sow – then you receive a result. So, firstly, you go to the new level, and then you receive everything that should be on this level: car, job, beloved one.

And if you have decided to get to the new level, do not agree for the less. Because once you agreed for a little tit – you determined your real level. Full stop.

Keep focus on your dream

When you forget about your dream, do nothing for its realization and even don’t think about it, it goes into the category of “not important”, so it could be postponed until better times.

On the other hand, when you are concentrated and focused on your dream, do you agree that there are almost no obstacles? And your goal is realized rather quickly, as if you had support from above.

Those were some little, but not less important tips to know, so that your New Year and other dreams, wishes, goals had all other chances come true! Wish you the same from the bottom of my heart;-)

Dream, achieve, agree only for the best, and you will surprise yourself!