Family Hearth Magic

Each person’s universe begins from the family.

It’s our family that becomes our world’s prototype. Through our parents in the childhood, we learn to interact with the world, decide if it is good for us or not, feel its safety and care.

When we grow up, we broaden the frames of our world. But we always take with ourselves a feeling of coziness, love and kindness which our family has given us.

To be a part of a family is a great happiness and a great responsibility. Understanding this you realize that you are never alone. There are always your mother’s prays and your father’s support, your grandparents’ blessings by your side. This is what gives you wings behind your back, helps to go further, withstand in life’s storms and believe that the world is for you and with you.

Creating our own family, we don’t stop being a part of a family system in which we have grown up. Instead, now we are creating the same gentle space of love and acceptance by ourselves for our children and husband. And it is wonderful that we choose values which we want to take with us in our adult life, where you are a mother and a wife.

Do you know why the majority of women dream of a family and relationship?

Because this is how and where or femininity manifests itself. It is the instinct to care realization, sense of self-worth, ability to create beauty and coziness in a family space. A woman feels her place in the world through the family. This is why it’s so important for us to have order and harmony in it.

Unfortunately, there are situations when women begin to “escape” from the family, don’t feel happy there. But it’s a wrong way. For a family it is always about love and safety. If a woman doesn’t feel them, she should stop and ask herself: “What has happened to me? Why don’t I find welfare in the family?” Usually, the reason for such a situation is a woman’s wish to be good for everyone. Please her husband, children, parents.

But all of this is not about family. It’s about fears, lack of confidence, a habit to deserve love.

A family is the safest space on Earth. Where you can be different, kind and angry, brave and coward, beautiful and tired. Where you are loved and accepted as you are. You don’t have to hide your feelings, thoughts, dreams and desires.

It doesn’t mean that if troubles happen, then it is a reason to think that something is wrong with your family. We don’t stop in our evolution. We change, as well as our husband and children do. And changes are always ambiguous. But these are those situations which demonstrate zones of family system’s evolution. Some time later you will understand that something has changed, and you have begun to feel even better in the family universe.

A family is a woman’s place of energy recovery. Here you can be weak and ask to be pitied. Here you don’t have to always be a strong iron lady. Here is a safe place to cry, whine, hide from the whole world. And to know that everything is fine. And after recovery to shine again.

Due to the scientists, communication with beloved husband and children raises the level of happiness, brings joy, positive emotions and fills a woman with feminine magic.

The main thing to remember is that a family is not only a place to eat, sleep, clean up and make claims to each other about the routine. A family is first and foremost a place of strength. Strength of love and happiness. Trust me, no routine things will become the reasons for fights, misunderstandings and disappointments, if your family is ruled by the atmosphere of joy, mutual understanding and love. By the way, such atmosphere needs your attention as much or even more than cooking or washing.

The atmosphere is created not by cleanliness and a full fridge, but by gentle hugs, kind words and mutual support. I’m sure you know that our children need a happy mom, not new clothes. A husband wants to see by his side a beautiful and spirited woman, not a constantly tired busy housewife or businesswoman.

It’s not true that men have stopped to fulfill women’s dreams. Actually, these are women who stopped to believe that men can and want to do it. But they do it only when woman’s eyes burn with her desire, but not when she demands or begs.

Be the queen of your own kingdom named Family!

And finally, if you want to live in a kind and loving world, you should create such a world in your own family. Then the family space’s magic will every day support you, inspire you, bring you confidence, happiness and welfare;-)